I am sitting hear once again with head spinning from another botched attempt at leadership. The issue is steaming from someone making a move without seeking advice from those around him. When communication is not present in a group, that group is doomed to failure. Communication is key especially when we are dealing with the principle of the day. Ujima requires communication to grow and become powerful.
Here is your proverb:
"Words are like arrows throw them only when you know where they will fall."
Wow, this proverb is perfect for what happened to my tribe yesterday....